2014

Good bye 2013.....hello 2014!

 

2013 had been a very fruitful year for me. Switching from being SAHM to FTWM, was quite a major challenge for me having been out of action for close to 2 years! Took a while to adapt since I have not been a big fan of changes though I should be considered as good tolerance in adaptability.

 

Back to 2014, think setting new year resolutions are rather passé so shall give it a miss this year. Anyhow I have not exactly been able to recall attaining the resolutions set out for the past years, yes no typo, past years! Then again, I am still secretly wishing that my resolution can come true...I need to lean down and lose weight!!!

 

So how do we spend New Year eve? AT HOME LA, what else could we have done?! I spend my countdown amid baking and the children are nice to us, KO-ed a little past 10pm which is quite rare. My Japanese cotton cheesecake turned out well and the very 1st time the hub sing praise of it, not very generous with his praises but good enough.

 

Attended Cayden's birthday party on the first day of the year and yes we are indeed very honoured to be invited since it is a small family affair party, a Minion themed party!! Cayden was very happy and both of them stuck together for the whole afternoon. A whale of time both the boys had. Cayden kept on insisting to take photos with Zethan included! It is amazing how both of them turned out to be best buddy somehow despite the fact that we do not meet up as often as we would like it to be.

 

Some emo thoughts here. It is a great shame that we have 'lost' some friends but as the way life is, people in our lives come and go which is perfectly normal. The abnormality is being backstabbed by others for unknown reasons to lose another set of friendship, perhaps guilty conscience at work. Incapability and non performance refused to be acknowledged yet blaming on others. No wish of speculations but just a slight tint of regrets that situation to turn out this way. Honestly it's a classic case of quality and not quantity of friendship displayed. Just like what the hubby said, even if being sentenced to death, the least is to identify what had gone wrong but it is not in us to pursue it further. As in all different form of 'ship' be it relationship or friendship, it take a great deal to maintain and certainly two ways. Just do me a small favour, do not ever relate any 'secrets' or typical 'talk here and forget all about it' as end of the day ironically the subject of the topic turned out to be on such good terms with the person whom start it all! Freaky scary and ugly human. 

 

Well, on a positive note, all the negativity and evils eliminated in 2013 so we could have a great positive year in 2014!