Zethan's daddy must have been one of the most fortunate daddies in the whole wide world. why is that so? simply because he isn't a very pro-active daddy since pregnancy time all the way till this point when Zethan is about to turn 14 months. all this while he has been using the 'excuse' that Zethan is a little too young and fragile thus he has no confidence handling him totally.
so just last sunday, mummy decide to 'force' daddy to bathe Zethan while she stayed beside them giving step by step instructions! sounds weird right, aren't bathing Zethan supposed to be the same as how daddy bathe himself??!!! anyhow give him some credit for attempting the 1st, they always say practise make perfect right. Zethan is a little skeptical and fearful, think he can sense the fear and anxiety from daddy thus making him very insecure.
daddy is also participating more in terms of care giving as mummy make him prepare Zethan's morning feed as well as feeding him as this little guy here still refuse to 'self feed'. for a long while mummy wake to do it herself as she do not wish to disturb daddy's sleep. not untill weeks back when she feels burnt out and decided she need a little more beauty sleep as well (talking about weekend). as for weekdays, she had to rush through preparing for work so the feeding had to be left to daddy (grandma usually comes in at around 8.30am).
the next task / challenge for daddy shall be diapering! this is going to be a major challenge since it is so tough to put on diaper for Zethan ever since like he's 7 months old. nontheless, daddy would still have to attempt!
so just last sunday, mummy decide to 'force' daddy to bathe Zethan while she stayed beside them giving step by step instructions! sounds weird right, aren't bathing Zethan supposed to be the same as how daddy bathe himself??!!! anyhow give him some credit for attempting the 1st, they always say practise make perfect right. Zethan is a little skeptical and fearful, think he can sense the fear and anxiety from daddy thus making him very insecure.
daddy is also participating more in terms of care giving as mummy make him prepare Zethan's morning feed as well as feeding him as this little guy here still refuse to 'self feed'. for a long while mummy wake to do it herself as she do not wish to disturb daddy's sleep. not untill weeks back when she feels burnt out and decided she need a little more beauty sleep as well (talking about weekend). as for weekdays, she had to rush through preparing for work so the feeding had to be left to daddy (grandma usually comes in at around 8.30am).
the next task / challenge for daddy shall be diapering! this is going to be a major challenge since it is so tough to put on diaper for Zethan ever since like he's 7 months old. nontheless, daddy would still have to attempt!
.JPG)
4 comments:
u r KIDDING!!!! no bathing and diapering????? omg i will die.. coz i cant imagine doing it all alone... is there family at home to help?
At least Z's dd tried bathing & feeding. Aedan's dd has not even step into this boundary. I can count the no of times he diapered, fed A (using only 1 hand) Oh yeah, he still dun know how to prepare a bottle. So Z's dd falls into 2nd place :) **dink**
Flo....NO KIDDING! frankly im blessed to have mom's help though situation change recently. we are caring for him at night thus gota force hb to 'contribute'!!! hee
dink...I FORCE him ar! high time he try all these out after having luxury for so so long.
Post a Comment